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maGical words
Some of the most significant messages people deliver to one another often come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed,those statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled.
The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.

I'LL BE THERE - Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. 'Being there' is at the very very core of civility.

I MISS YOU - Perhaps more relationship could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.

I RESPECT YOU - Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.

MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT - This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side of "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting "maybe I'm wrong."

PLEASE FORGIVE ME - Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I AM SORRY-Whenever you are going to say that word never feels dat it would make you inferior.This word heal all the injuries you give to your friends n loved ones.

I THANK YOU - Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

COUNT ON ME - "A friend is one who walks in when others walk out," Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there, indicating "you can count on me."

LET ME HELP - The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I UNDERSTAND YOU - People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.

GO FOR IT - Some of your friends may be non conformists, have unique or unusual hobbies. Support them in pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones to conform, encourage their uniqueness-everyone has dreams that no one else has.

Laugh with friends - Having a good laugh with a friend like you stimulates endorphins, the brain’s natural painkillers. So, if you need to laugh and you can’t find a friend like yourself, I can lend you my mirror.

I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to be reserved for those who are special, sweet, charming, and mysterious; that is I LOVE YOU.

Idea:- Ajeet n Annshoole


Mumbai meri jaan...

In d wake of mumbai attacks,
dead bodies piled up in shacks,
no 1 could even fight back,
u talk bout security,
well, security had cracks,
it was inadequate,
it was not our fate,
to prove ma point,
i dont have to b a bill gate,
their hearts filled with hate,
dey didn't need a certificate,
to come and penetrate,
india's security,
man check ur credibility,
to even secure d nation,
d nation now can see,
whats d meaning of security,
its lost its authenticity,
d situation is intricate,
v need to concentrate,
on d people who died,
coz of d people who lied,
and whom so ever laid
his life, how were dey paid
in return, minister said
dey were great, dey were dead
for d country, was it a war..??..
if it was a war den it was a scar,
on india's face,
coz dis country ain't participate,
in any arms race,
dey fired from a police van,
on innocent people,
firin blindly as only dey can,
and people ran for their life,
man many of dem had wives
and children, who just might,
have been waiting in d night,
their parents would come home,
but it would have been a fright,
to listen to their fate,
man even when i write,
ma hand goes pale white,
to imagine their life,
without their loved one's,
man dis stuff aint right,
dis has gotta stop,
but how is it gonna stop,
it aint happen all of sudden,
its all our burden,
and v gotta carry dis burden,
as v all r one unit,
v all gotta unite and do it,
man dis aint no shit,
we should not split,
v gotta combine our strengths,
no matter what religion,
till every indian,
awakens under his soul,
till he aint gain control,
and take his resolve out to d street,
and stop accepting defeat,
till our chances r discreet,
till d last drop of blood,
gushes in our veins,
dose terrorists dey noe not,
what courage indians got,
lets show dem v r no lots,
of people who r weak,
let dis informaiton leak,
indians will fight back,
v'll show dem v aint lack,
dese losers r no match,
for d real heroes,
see there dey go,
frightened in their bunkers,
man dey r some fuckin jerkers,
v hav d spirit,
dat v all once lacked,
lets show dem how v do it,
till dey dont admit it,

Dis all come right from ma heart,
dis is just d start,
even in d eyes of d world,
i may b a retard,
so fuck it,
i'm gonna make a new beggining,
to make INDIANS say,
lets not dishearten lets not live in dismay.......

so lets come together in a rhythm,
and make them realise that we r not 1,
......yes we r not 1, we r one soul...

We hope dis enlightens you not to b afraid against terrorism.
"you die once, but if u r afraid u will die every second''.....

written by - ASHUTOSH JHA...[www.ashutosh-jha.com]...